Are you a shy person? I am. I don’t like small talk, or parties or crowds, or my mobile phone. I do like time alone in the bush, working with horses and dogs, writing, reading … it doesn’t really matter. When I’m alone I’m at peace. One simple way to diagnose yourself is to take a free Myer Briggs personality test. I’m an INFJ which is apparently common among writers.
Introversion generally suits a writer’s life except in one respect – public speaking. These days part of an author’s platform includes giving talks: at launches, libraries, book stores, etc. I’m even a member of a terrific group called The New Romantics, four authors (including Kathryn Ledson, Kate Belle and Margareta Osborn) who present panel discussions on different aspects of writing and reading at writer’s festivals. This sort of thing does not come naturally to a shy person, or so I thought until I read Public Speaking for Authors, Creatives and other Introverts by Joanna Penn.
What a marvellous book! Joanna is an author, international speaker and entrepreneur based in London, England. She was voted as one of The Guardian UK Top 100 creative professionals 2013. She is also an introvert. The premise of her book is that public speaking is not an act of extroversion – shy people can excel at it too. When Joanna first started speaking, she developed a stage persona, a kind of ‘extroverted shell.’ But putting on an appearance cost her in energy, authenticity and even health. It was only when she embraced her introversion that she found her true voice as a speaker. Her handbook covers psychological aspects, as well as practical things like preparing and giving a speech, all from the perspective of an inherently shy person. She also gives a disarming personal account of how she increased her own confidence and learned to cope with nerves. I wish I’d had this book years ago! Her website The Creative Penn has lots of resources for writers as well.
I can certainly identify with your observations and analysis. I started out extremely intimidated to speak publicly. But after several years at it, I choose to speak publicly over speaking privately many times. As you say, anyone can do it with effort.
I’m hoping to get to that point soon William!
As a teacher [waaaaay back when] I learned to cope with a hostile audience, and my trick is to only talk about those things I’m passionate about. If I do, the words flow, and they’re genuine, something all audiences can pick in a heartbeat. You’re passionate about your writing so I think you’ll be fine. 🙂
I’d be no good as a teacher, I’m afraid! Thanks for the encouragement. What did you teach?
Most French, and whatever else an emergency teacher had to handle. I only lasted a few years, I must admit. 🙂